I don't really want to be one of these people. You know, the feminists who nitpick about language? Like the whole Stud vs Slut thing (a man who has sex with a lot of women is a stud, a women who has sex with lots of women is a slut... and which one is viewed as derogatory?)
But I was reading something with the phrase "men's entitlement to female nurturance" which is something that is totally stereotypical in traditional gender-role marriages (think Cult of True Womanhood if you know the term).
When I read that, I thought "high-maintenance". Then I realized nobody would ever use that to describe a man. (Not that I think a man who insists on being nurtured without returning the favor is a good thing either. Its gotta be mutual, if you want a strong relationship.)
More to the point, however... here's a bunny :)